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 Pride & Promises

 

  Christian Support & Biblical Guidance

for Christian Parents

of LGBTQ+ Kids

 

Biblical wisdom, practical tools, and real support to help you love your child well and keep your faith strong.

 

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When your child comes out, everything shifts. 

  

You want to honor God.

You want to love your child well.

You're afraid of doing the wrong thing. 

 

 Dear  Parent,

 

You're not alone.  You don't have to figure it out all by yourself.

We'll help.

Pride & Promises helps Christian parents navigate the tender intersection of faith, family,

and sexuality — with biblical truth, compassion, and practical guidance.

You’ll find tools, resources, coaching, and biblical wisdom to help you walk this journey with grace.

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Who I help

I support Christian parents, grandparents, pastors, and caregivers who want to honor God while walking alongside their LGBTQ+ child with grace, wisdom, and emotional safety. Whether you’re overwhelmed, grieving, hopeful, confused, or deeply committed to your child, you’re not alone. There’s a way to walk this road well without sacrificing love or truth.

Start Here: 

1. âžś Get the Conversation Starters

Engage with your child with confidence

2. âžś Work through the 31-day Workbook

Gain biblical guidance and deeper understanding

3. âžś Join Love Unlimited & Community Group

Get support and gain confidence for the future

Gain a deeper connection and a broadened perspective for:

your child - your faith - Scripture - yourself.

 

  Hold Onto Your Faith

While  You Hold Onto Your LGBTQ+ Child    

 

Start with Step 1
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Record Your Thoughts

31-Day Workbook

for Parents

A 78-page workbook designed to:

  •  help you navigate your thoughts and feelings
  • answer thought-provoking questions with biblical truth with journaling space to record your thoughts and prayers
  • walk your journey in confidence, with faith and love intact
  • dive deep into understanding the heart of your child from a biblical perspective
  • learn that it IS possible to hold onto your faith while you hold onto your child.
  • pray though each day so that every day, assured that the Lord sees you
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Kim Stilp offering biblical guidance through video course for Christian parents of LGBTQ kids
Self-Paced Video series

Online Course & 
Group Coaching

Transform your days ahead with:

  • practical step-by-step guidance to understand the journey
  • a concentrated look at topics in 29 sessions to help you understand topics you may not have previously considered
  • delve into important topics, including your child's perspective, parental emotions, the significance of parental support, navigating faith, considering the future, and all the things in between
  • group meetings twice monthly via Zoom, with parents, pastors & encouragers who understand the journey of LGBTQ+ parents
START COURSE
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One-to-One Help

Online Course PLUS One-to-One Coaching 

Navigating the complex intersection of faith and family can feel like you're carrying grace and truth in trembling hands.

  • Personalized, faith-based guidance to help you navigate Christian faith & family with clarity and compassion.

  • A safe, confidential space to process fear, grief, emotions and overwhelm, without judgment.
  • Practical next steps to strengthen your relationship with your child, rebuild trust, and walk with grace, wisdom, and emotional steadiness
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Can I invite you to breathe?

Pause a moment and take a breath.

God isn’t surprised by your child’s revelation.

He can handle the questions:

✓  Is God mad at me?
✓  Why my family?
✓  What will my church say?
✓  Who should (or shouldn't) I tell? *Read the Blog About Disclosure
✓  Is my child going to hell?
✓  What do I say? 
✓  Does God love my child?
✓  Where do I turn?

Fear not, you are not alone. 

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Free Christian parenting resource for families navigating conversations with their LGBTQ+ child by Kim Stilp

WONDERING WHAT TO SAY?

 

S T A R T    H E R E :

FREE 31 Conversation Starters

Digital Download
  • Ask thoughtfully crafted questions 
  • Engage with and understand your child’s perspective
  • Be encouraged by Scripture
  • Explore what it’s like to walk in your child’s shoes

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Hi. I'm Kim

(and that's my grand dog, Theo)

 

I love Jesus.  I love my child, and I’m walking this path with my family. Together, we can walk this road with both truth and tenderness.

  • We’ve navigated imperfectly.
  • We’ve done some things well.
  • We’ve had joys and pains, misunderstandings and growth.

We have hurts. Our children do too.

Everyone’s carrying some collateral damage. 

Our family has learned that every child carries hidden wounds — and every parent carries fear they rarely say out loud. I’m here to help Christian parents navigate those fears with biblical wisdom, compassion, and truth.

If you feel unsure, overwhelmed, protective, heartbroken, deeply confused, or totally alone… you’re in the right place.
I know what it feels like to love your LGBTQ+ child fiercely while trying to hold onto your faith with both hands.

Let's start with a conversation.

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Kim Stilp offering encouragement and resources for Christian parents of LGBTQ+ children on their faith journey
Footsteps in sand symbolizing the faith journey of Christian parents learning to walk with their LGBTQ+ child

I'm glad you're here. 

 I wish I could sit across from you with a warm cup of coffee and look you in the eyes to say: You’re not a bad parent. God isn’t disappointed in you. And you’re not alone.

We may never fully grasp the courage it took for our children to reveal their most vulnerable part of their lives — but we can learn to respond with faith, emotional resilience, and Christlike love.

The Lord will stretch us and teach us to walk this journey with grace. (Spoiler alert, we need a boatload of the stuff.)

If you’re afraid of “doing it wrong,” questioning your reactions, or worried about honoring God while honoring your child—you’re not failing. You’re growing.

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Our mission

At Pride and Promises, we know that every family’s journey is unique and precious.

Our mission is simple:

To provide Christ-centered, biblical resources, biblical reassurance, and practical guidance for Christian parents who want to hold onto their faith while they hold onto their LGBTQ+ children.

Because your child’s story matters.
Your faith matters.
And Jesus has not stepped out of your family’s story.

 

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Are you ready to walk the journey well?

Thank you

for inviting us to be part of your journey.

Together, we can create a world where

every child feels loved,

every family is valued,

and every believer loves like Jesus does.

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How do I tell my Christian parents I'm gay?

 ARE YOU A TEEN WHO HAS FOUND THIS

PAGE?

Wondering how to talk to your parents?

Disclosure can be scary.  We'll help you navigate disclosure to your family, and we'll help your family through.  

We're glad you're here.

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DON'T MISS THE BLOG READS

Take some practical steps toward understanding your story.

Boundaries vs. Ultimatums

Creating Space at My Table - Pt. 1

Creating Space at My Table - Pt. 2
READ THEM ALL âž”

Your Support Means the World

               Hey there, amazing human,

Would you like to make a donation to

Pride & Promises? 

Every contribution means we can keep doing the work that matters.  Your gift will help another parent who cannot afford the help they need. We also provide practical needs to LGBTQ+ individuals who might not have anyone else in their corner.  No child should be homeless or hungry.

Your generosity means we can:
âś“ Continue our support groups for parents learning to love unconditionally
✓ Provide resources for families navigating complex circumstances
✓ Offer direct support to LGBTQ+ people in under-resourced communities who need a helping hand

These aren't just programs. These are lives. Real humans, who need to know they are seen, valued, and loved, no matter what.

Pride & Promises is not a 501(c)3 organization; therefore, donations are not tax deductible.

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