Are you feeling lost, overwhelmed…
(embarrassed, even)…because your child came out?
Feeling STUCK at where
to even begin?
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Do you wonder if God is even
in your story?
When your child came out, were you left with too many questions and not enough answers? Shock, shame, fear, disbelief, anger, grief, confusion, overwhelm…am I speaking your language?
As Christian parents, we felt lost over what to think, feel or say. No one within the walls of our church considered how to equip parents who have an LBGTQ+ child.
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Are you feeling it too?
If that’s you, then welcome.
You’re with safe company here.
We’re aware that there are a lot of things that altered your world with your child’s disclosure.
→ What about faith?
→ Where is God?
→ How did this happen?
→ What do I say?
→ Who do I turn to?
→ What about boundaries?
→ Is this the worst thing?
→ Can we agree on anything?
→ Do I have to pick Jesus or my child?
But imagine....
Overcoming your fears, anxieties, stereotypes, and conflicted thoughts over being a Christian parent of an LGBTQ+ child
Sharing a meal with your child and their friends, where everyone is comfortable and no one feels judged
A house full of like-minded and wildly different people coming together to simply see and appreciate the value of a human being
Your child wanting to bring their friends to you, because your home has become a safe haven to marginalized people
Having worked so dang hard on yourself, your faith and within your family that you celebrate because you’re different, and also so much alike
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Introducing.....
Grounded in Faith, Guided by Love
A 31-day workbook for navigating the road of parenting an LGBTQ+ child
This 31-Day Workbook will show you how it is possible to love Jesus and your child, too.
You’ll discover how to:
âś“ Shed unhealthy emotions that keep you locked in fear and shame
âś“Â Maintain your walk of faith without compromising your beliefs
âś“Â Avoid the pitfalls of saying the wrong things or missing what your child needs
âś“Â Love your child unconditionally and curb emotional damage to your child
âś“Â Create an action plan for navigating the days, months and years ahead
âś“Â Receive guidance for thoughts you may have forgotten to consider
âś“Â Contemplate fundamental principles to navigate with care and compassion
This resource is aÂ
MUST-HAVE
 for confused parents.
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Becky L.
Wisconsin
Kim has a genuine heart for loving our LGBT kids well, the way God loves us. I struggled with navigating my child coming out and not knowing how to build trust when my child was terrified. I longed for direction and guidance for how to walk this road, wanting to honor God while creating a loving and safe space for my child.
I felt very alone. . . when I finally met another parent who loved the Lord and was also walking this path, I felt such relief knowing I wasn't alone. Knowing my feelings were shared by someone else who understood what we were going through was very comforting.
I celebrate that Kim is offering tools and coaching for parents who, like me, needed some help from a friend who understands and knows what the tension of loving well and honoring God looks like. What a blessing and encouragement it will be for those families who are just beginning this journey. I am confident that there are many who will benefit greatly from Kim's heart to help families and honor God.
I see you.
I know your questions. I understand your fears. I know how your faith feels rocked. I know you need to process your feelings and plant your feet on solid ground.
Don’t try to navigate this alone. I’ve been there, and I felt isolated. I want you to feel equipped to understand your story.
Let’s Get Acquainted
I’m a proud wife and momma whose passion is to walk beside others in the middle of the messes of our God-gifted lives. Driven by a profound dedication to my family, a gratitude for people, and a love for the one-anothers, my passion is to encourage other families in navigating the tangled up circumstances that don’t have linear solutions.
When our son revealed his deeply held secret that he was gay, it left our entire family with few answers and little support within our local church and community. After a number of years navigating a lonely road, and realizing that many other families felt similarly isolated, my passion became one of building resources and encouragement for families who are also traveling on this journey with LGBTQ+ kids.
With all the honesty and vulnerability I can muster (I don’t mind sharing my flaws), and through a thought-provoking framework,
I’m passionate about navigating the complexities of gay pride while anchoring our lives to God’s promises.
Inviting both parents and children to the table with open hearts, my deepest desire is to safeguard relationships by bridging the gaps between understanding Biblical promises, Gospel love and the LGBTQ+ community.
With a passion for the Word, I’m purposeful in preserving the integrity of the words on the pages and the people for whom they were written. I feel privileged that you join me on the crazy journey of facing fears, understanding perspectives, and opening new doors of communication to understand those we love.
Mo M.
Wisconsin
Kim is the real deal. She is walking the difficult road, both loving her son and honoring God, with minimal guidance from the church. She teaches us how to listen well to receive the truth of our kids’ experiences, to hold space for them without losing our faith. Kids are dying. We need to respond. Kim is inviting us to pivot with her.
IMAGINE...
- Feeling confident in your faith and assured of God's provision in the days ahead.
- Imagine being the parent your child needs.
- Imagine your child feeling safe within your home.Â
- Imagine beginning this journey with more understanding than confusion.Â
- Imagine avoiding mistakes and missteps because you took the time to care.
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Don’t get stuck because you don’t know what to say.Â
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The Lord has made a way, and He will help you.Â
Be encouraged by His word.Â
Stand firm in your faith. Love your child like Jesus does.
Grounded in Faith, Guided by Love will show you how.
YES! DOWNLOAD MY WORKBOOK NOW
What's inside the workbook?
Grounded in Faith, Guided by Love is designed as a 31-day guided journey.
Each daily workbook segment presents a new consideration for your heart, your faith and your child. You’ll find Scripture to encourage you, thought-provoking questions, and space to record your thoughts as you contemplate how to live out the story God is writing.
Remind me what I'll learn?Â
✓ It’s okay to feel overwhelmed
✓ God hasn’t left or betrayed you
âś“Â Discover what your child needs
âś“Â Understand the impact of your words and actions
âś“Â Navigate faith, sin, love, grace
âś“Â Learn what love in action looks like
This is your special invitation to purchase Grounded in Faith, Guided by Love for only $59 today.Â
Rachelle A.
Colorado Springs, CO
My immediate response when I think about Kim, is that she is a woman with the gift of joy. This gift might have come easy if she knew a life of little pain, but Kim is well acquainted with life’s sufferings. She has endured with a more profound, more abiding joy from walking through darkness near her Savior. “God proves to be good to the man who passionately waits, to the woman who diligently seeks. It’s a good thing to quietly hope, quietly hope for help from God” (The Message, Lamentations 3).
I have been privileged to call Kim my friend for close to thirty years. As young families raising our children together, I was often encouraged by Kim, who knew the importance of community in the Christian life. She and her husband led our small group with humility and joy that drew people together in authentic, deepening relationships.
Kim’s heart reflects Paul’s words in 2 Cor. 5:18-19, “Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation.” Reconciliation comes at a cost, a laying down of our swords so we can hear from the heart of others and “honor everyone” (1 Peter 2:17). Even when disagreements seem profound, she affirms we can still nod with an understanding of the person sitting across the table from us.
This is for you if:
âś“ You want to hold onto your faith and hold onto your child
âś“Â You want to see God in your story
✓ You’re shocked, surprised, disappointed or confused
âś“Â You feel more shame than assurance
✓ You don’t want to alienate your child
✓ You want to understand your child’s perspective and make their world feel safe
This isn't for you if:
✓ You think your child can navigate this alone (spoiler alert…they can’t)
✓ You don’t think the Bible has anything worthwhile to help you through this journey
✓ You don’t think your child’s wellbeing is worth the price of a movie ticket & some fake-buttered popcorn
✓ You can’t find 20 minutes a day to build your faith, and your relationship with your child
PLUS! When you purchase today,
you’ll get TWO MORE FREE resources!
1 - Ten Misconceptions about LGBTQ+ PeopleÂ
Many people make wrong presumptions about the LGBTQ+ Community that cause damage. These false beliefs often stem from a lack of understanding, fear, or misinformation, and can lead to discrimination and isolation. For LGBTQ+ individuals, this can result in mental health challenges such as anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation. Knowing some key factors creates a bridge of understanding.
2 - Ten Things My Child Wants Me to KnowÂ
Research has shown that in Christian families, LGBTQ+ children hold more fear and anxiety over how their famlies will respond to their disclosure, because they struggle to navigate family beliefs with their LGBTQ+ feelings. Ten things kids want parents to know will help you avoid making presumptions about what your child wants or needs.
